如何對他重拾信心呢.....
我男朋友曾經呃過我...我對他的信任只降到20%..0安全感..
他也知道我不相信他..
但他又不會做些事情來重拾我對他的信心..
只會說我多疑..自己常常亂想...{:51:} 你地應該要比多d溝通…
佢之前呃你咩呀？ 先後同2個女仔搞曖昧....
佢成日都唔比我知佢D野架...收收埋埋咁.. [quote]先後同2個女仔搞曖昧....
佢成日都唔比我知佢D野架...收收埋埋咁..
[size=2][color=#999999]icewing 發表於 2010-11-6 03:29 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4180&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
到最後你又係點知？ [quote]先後同2個女仔搞曖昧....
佢成日都唔比我知佢D野架...收收埋埋咁..
[size=2][color=#999999]icewing 發表於 2010-11-6 03:29 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4180&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
到最後你又係點知？ 第1次係睇佢SMS知道...不過呢次佢有道歉..我想分手就追返我..
第2次我FEEL到..就CHECK佢FB..EMAIL個D..今次佢認為自己冇錯..雖然我講左好多次分手..佢都冇理我..最後只係說了..我仲係好愛你..冇想過同我分手..(其實係發生中) [quote]先後同2個女仔搞曖昧....
佢成日都唔比我知佢D野架...收收埋埋咁..
[size=2][color=#999999]icewing 發表於 2010-11-6 03:29 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4180&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我同你同病相連, 以前有其中一個ex俾我發現佢同另一個女仔唔止曖昧, 仲發生關係, 當時我好心痛, 幾日食唔落野..
本來想同佢分手, 但佢求我俾次機會佢, 保證會改唔會再犯, 我就冇同佢分手, 但其實心裡無原諒到佢, 一直耿耿於懷
呢事件之後我地關係冇以咁好, 我有陰影, 會成日擔心佢有冇對我唔住, 壓力好大, 最後我受住分手收場 {:4_5:} [quote]我同你同病相連, 以前有其中一個ex俾我發現佢同另一個女仔唔止曖昧, 仲發生關係, 當時我好心痛, 幾日食 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]queenbobo 發表於 2010-11-6 03:53 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4191&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
唉...佢地又冇發生左關係..只係開始左一兩星期就結束左...
我知道左..成個星期都食唔到..訓唔到..喊住返工...
佢冇安慰過我..只係扮冇事發生..
而家我依然同佢一齊..一個月前..我同佢好似只係掛名的男女朋友...完全冇溝通..只係間中問對方..在做什麼..一句起兩句止...一日都冇十個sms..個時真係好痛苦..佢又唔肯同個女仔斷絕...我又唔知佢地有冇再聯絡...雖然話做回普通朋友..但始終都鍾意過大家牙..
最近一星期..我同佢既關係..好似有少少好轉..佢關心我多返d..都可以keep住sms全日..不過就唔會好似以前咁..同大家講老公老婆goodnight..(因為佢同個女仔都係互叫老公老婆,我再接受唔到佢叫我做老婆)
我真係好想可以變返以前咁... [quote]唉...佢地又冇發生左關係..只係開始左一兩星期就結束左...
我知道左..成個星期都食唔到..訓唔到..喊住 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]icewing 發表於 2010-11-6 10:59 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4264&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
如果佢知錯能改, 之後全心全意對你好, 相信你好快會忘記以前唔開心o既野 [quote]如果佢知錯能改, 之後全心全意對你好, 相信你好快會忘記以前唔開心o既野
[size=2][color=#999999]cicichan2008 發表於 2010-11-6 11:32 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4275&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我都等緊佢自己有所覺悟...{:51:} 講真..2個人搞到咁再一齊落去都冇意思..
我個ex都係..同佢一齊左3個月度佢就同第2個女仔曖昧.(叫老公老婆/kiss果d..)
我係同佢電腦果陣個女仔冇啦啦msn佢我先發覺的
個ex即刻跪哂喊哂咁叫我原諒佢... (我係好心軟果d人..)
跟住就表面就冇事咁繼續一齊..但係我都對佢冇哂信心又成日疑心好重..
因為我同佢係英國識既..我係oxford佢係london..
佢成日同女仔sms又試過話有女仔fd要去佢度過夜..(我都唔知點解果陣我會俾..)
一齊左差唔多1年..佢就畢業返香港..我就繼續讀書..
分開2個地方仲辛苦..我一日可能打俾佢3-4次..佢都覺得我check住佢..成日唔聽
係佢facebook又成日見佢add新既女仔..msn又少on..(加上時差)
最後差唔多2年果陣就分手lu..
同個ex一齊果陣我真係以為佢會係最後一個..
所以一直好努力經營我同佢既感情
同佢分開左之後同左依家個男朋友一齊
先發覺原本我可以幸福好多 [quote]講真..2個人搞到咁再一齊落去都冇意思..
我個ex都係..同佢一齊左3個月度佢就同第2個女仔曖昧.(叫老公老婆/ ...
[size=2][color=#999999]catloveyouemily 發表於 2010-11-7 02:10 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4302&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
其實我都有同佢講過...如果你連坦誠呢樣野都做唔到..2個人點再一齊行落去...
佢都係成日同女仔SMS..呢排成日都同佢嘈..見佢就少左同女仔SMS..
不過唔知佢自己一個既時候會唔會都係同其他女仔SMS...
以前佢部IPHONE會比我玩..而家佢係要望實我點比我掂...
我都已經有D心理準備..如果佢再係咁..我就真係會走...
唔想再比同一類型既事..傷自己3次... [i=s] 本帖最後由 catloveyouemily 於 2010-11-8 01:34 AM 編輯 [/i]
[quote]其實我都有同佢講過...如果你連坦誠呢樣野都做唔到..2個人點再一齊行落去...
佢都係成日同女仔SMS.. ...
[size=2][color=#999999]icewing 發表於 2010-11-7 11:45 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4342&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
咁樣真係好辛苦架...
我果陣話就話冇野咁同返佢一齊..
但係佢一唔聽電話/同我出街有sms/電話etc我就會懷疑 (佢仲要係行開一邊睇/聽)
我懷疑佢 佢又會話我唔信佢..話我對佢冇信心
(我果陣個心係咁諗"喂大佬呀..係你唔o岩在先..如果你唔係有前科我都唔會咁重疑心")
雖然佢可能真係冇野..但係一諗返佢不忠果次..你就好難去真係100%對佢有信心...
真係唔開心就同佢分開啦
女仔就係咁..成日衰心軟..
d男仔就係睇準我地li樣野而hurt完你一次又一次.. 如果係5快樂`就分手呢`
但真係好難`分左手之後一定會好心痛嫁'
我比我選擇`如果心痛第3,4,5,,,,,,,,,,,,次`
我一定會分手`但都希望佢會變返好呢; [quote]咁樣真係好辛苦架...
我果陣話就話冇野咁同返佢一齊..
但係佢一唔聽電話/同我出街有sms/電話etc我就 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]catloveyouemily 發表於 2010-11-8 01:32 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4440&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我而家都成日覺得佢呃我呢樣個樣...明明佢自己唔岩在先..仲大條道理話我多疑..都唔知咩人來的... [quote]如果係5快樂`就分手呢`
但真係好難`分左手之後一定會好心痛嫁'
我比我選擇`如果心痛第3,4,5,,,,,,,,,,,,次 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]Cy_sh0p 發表於 2010-11-8 01:57 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4445&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我都知道..不過只係想既時候..就已經好痛苦..每次都會想到哭..真係覺得自己好犯賤T^T sis,係適當時候要學識放手.. [quote]我而家都成日覺得佢呃我呢樣個樣...明明佢自己唔岩在先..仲大條道理話我多疑..都唔知咩人來的...
[size=2][color=#999999]icewing 發表於 2010-11-8 08:52 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4459&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
同意X100000
D人成日話真正原諒一個人係要繼續對佢有信心
我自問真係做唔到 尤其當對方都冇用心去令我對佢重拾信心既話
我真係覺得唔再值得為咁既人唔開心 為佢浪費自己既時間 [quote]sis,係適當時候要學識放手..
[size=2][color=#999999]Toni_ip 發表於 2010-11-8 03:03 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4498&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我已經學習中啦..真係一個學問來的... [quote]同意X100000
D人成日話真正原諒一個人係要繼續對佢有信心
我自問真係做唔到 尤其當對方都冇用心去令 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]catloveyouemily 發表於 2010-11-8 11:56 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4633&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我起初都已經心死..不過最近見佢好似有D改善就再觀察下先...
原來好多SIS都同我有同一經歷T^T [b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4640&ptid=703]20#[/url] [i]icewing[/i] [/b]
呢個世上好多衰男人, SIS們我地真係可憐 {:16:} [quote]回復 icewing
呢個世上好多衰男人, SIS們我地真係可憐
[size=2][color=#999999]queenbobo 發表於 2010-11-9 01:18 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4676&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
{:51:} 係啦..真係好可憐牙我地.. 俾同一個人hurt一次就可憐 2次就唔好彩 3次就係自己死蠢架啦!
所以一齊得唔開心/對方又冇即刻改善就分手吧啦
男人衰過話要時間改都係呃人架 係我地咁蠢咁心軟先會信.. 我地唔係蠢,只係我地會真心相信自己愛既人 one question to ask yourself honey, if he treasures you - why is he out there flirting around with other people and call them sweetheart?
can he gives you want you need? and can you give him what he needs? 我們女人有男友有老公時會學懂避嫌免去他們擔心憂慮，他們卻只懂得訴說著那是普通朋友或那些只是戲言開玩笑，卻不知道聽在耳裡看在眼裡有多麼的刺耳刺眼．．．
男人們不懂的是．．．
以為做錯一次以後不再犯就可以，卻不知道錯了一次我們心中永遠都有刺 [quote]俾同一個人hurt一次就可憐 2次就唔好彩 3次就係自己死蠢架啦!
所以一齊得唔開心/對方又冇即刻改善就分手吧 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]catloveyouemily 發表於 2010-11-10 05:26 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4863&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我都知自己衰心軟...不過真係冇辦法..
有第3次就真係會走.. [quote]one question to ask yourself honey, if he treasures you - why is he out there flirting around with o ...
[size=2][color=#999999]heracheung 發表於 2010-11-11 08:55 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=4995&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
{:2:} sis~ 你個問題真係好難答呢..可能係我做得唔好.. [quote]我們女人有男友有老公時會學懂避嫌免去他們擔心憂慮，他們卻只懂得訴說著那是普通朋友或那些只是戲言開玩笑 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]TsZyEa 發表於 2010-11-12 06:03 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5138&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
冇錯...我有同佢講..心中有條刺..不過佢都冇比任何回應我..
只係我同返 tb 朋友聯絡..佢就唔鍾意..話人地鍾意我.. [b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5148&ptid=703]28#[/url] [i]icewing[/i] [/b]
we feel weak once we are in love, it is not anyone's fault at all. But never expect to change someone/ anyone for you. you gotta love what it is. It is like you are ordering a meal. You can't change the drink and the noodles and the dessert otherwise might as well order another meal.
Feel better, and you will learn. Everyone has a history, but if he knows he did something bad and still NOT trying to do something to compensate for it, you need to know your boundary. My boyfriend kind of cheated on me, so we set rules, like he needs to just tell me where he is going, call me when he is going somewhere, and just come home to me.
it wasn't serious because he wasn't really cheated on me (he didn't break up with his ex before we started together and he lied about it) - but if you know you are in a bad position, you should set rules and boundary to understand and know him more. [quote]回復 icewing
we feel weak once we are in love, it is not anyone's fault at all. But never ...
[size=2][color=#999999]heracheung 發表於 2010-11-12 09:50 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5263&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
我明白的..謝謝你牙=) [quote]回復 icewing
we feel weak once we are in love, it is not anyone's fault at all. But never ...
[size=2][color=#999999]heracheung 發表於 2010-11-12 09:50 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5263&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
Everyone has a history, but if he knows he did something bad and still NOT trying to do something to compensate for it, you need to know your boundary. <-cant agree more.. 其實比機會佢 , 就係因為我地想變返以前咁 ,
怕對佢太好時, 又怕再比佢傷害 [quote]我們女人有男友有老公時會學懂避嫌免去他們擔心憂慮，他們卻只懂得訴說著那是普通朋友或那些只是戲言開玩笑 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]TsZyEa 發表於 2010-11-12 06:03 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5138&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
好鐘意呢段說話.. 無一個男人係好,只不過係一堆哀男人裹面搵反個黎服侍下自己,天下烏鴉一樣黑 [quote]無一個男人係好,只不過係一堆哀男人裹面搵反個黎服侍下自己,天下烏鴉一樣黑
[size=2][color=#999999]Mandy9067 發表於 2010-11-14 04:57 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5528&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
好似講到真係冇一個好咁{:54:} [b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=6135&ptid=703]36#[/url] [i]icewing[/i] [/b]
haha! [font=arial, sans-serif][size=6][color=#000000][size=24px]世界裡有好男人, [/size][/color][/size][/font][color=#000][font=arial, sans-serif][size=24px]但也有太多的壞男人, [/size][/font][/color][color=#000][font=arial, sans-serif][size=24px]好男人不易看到.[/size][/font][/color]
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[font=arial, sans-serif][size=6][color=#000000][size=24px]我妹曾經有一個有錢男友，但他對待我妹不好, 對我妹講粗口..[/size][/color][/size][/font]
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[/color][/size][/font] 放手吧啦 [quote]其實比機會佢 , 就係因為我地想變返以前咁 ,
怕對佢太好時, 又怕再比佢傷害
[size=2][color=#999999]eu_sou_wsh 發表於 2010-11-13 11:37 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=5355&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
的確係咁想.每次想要分手時又會不捨得,但不分手想起佢咁對自己時又傷心,所以經常處在一個矛盾的空間入邊,連自己都唔知想點. [quote]的確係咁想.每次想要分手時又會不捨得,但不分手想起佢咁對自己時又傷心,所以經常處在一個矛盾的空間入 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]jody10 發表於 2010-11-19 05:01 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=6317&ptid=703][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]
冇錯...真係好矛盾><
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