Lady Qooza Forum's Archiver

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-3 11:21 PM

跟男朋友/老公的年齡差距

SIS們同自己既男朋友/老公年紀相差幾多年呢?~

我自己既男朋友就大我15>年,,, 本人20歲,
但同佢一齊既原因真係因為有FEEL先係埋一齊~

當然相距10幾年會有D代溝/想法唔同,
但我地2個每次都好用心去解決我地2個之間既問題架~

其實我本人覺得年紀既差距唔係真係D咩大問題, 只要真心去愛既話, 好多問題用心去解決既話都會解決得到. :)

唔知SIS們對年紀既差距同相處之道有咩睇法呢?
大家傾下吧~~ {:1:}

janiceliupig 發表於 2011-1-3 11:46 PM

我同男友差5年 我都認同年齡唔系問題既^^

yuki159753 發表於 2011-1-4 12:27 AM

我同意年紀差距唔係大問題,
最重要兩個人真心相愛, 肯互相包容遷就..

pinky226 發表於 2011-1-4 12:36 AM

最緊要溝通到.....其實揾年紀大小小係好架.....起碼照僱到自己
諗野冇咁o靚仔....成熟D.....

rilababe 發表於 2011-1-4 02:22 AM

3年左右~
但我唔會再搵個細過自己既男人啦= =
真係好似揍細路咁= =

catloveyouemily 發表於 2011-1-4 07:54 AM

我覺得實際年齡唔係問題,,
我之前個個bf都大自己幾年,,
最少都大我一年,最多果個大我5年..
反而佢地諗野都冇依家個bf咁成熟,,
依家個bf細我差唔多2個月..
我係擔心我個樣會好快老過佢好多就真,HA

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 10:19 AM

唉, 雖然宜家我地都好SWEET SWEET,,,
但諗到再遲少少...
講衰少少... *Touch wood* 佢走先過我既話, 果10幾年真係幾辛苦...
我宜家先20歲, 佢都差唔多40了,,,
雖然宜家真心相愛係冇問題,,,
但真係諗深少少... 唔多唔少都會造成少少問題...

shellywing 發表於 2011-1-4 02:32 PM

差接近3年:)

picniclau 發表於 2011-1-4 05:45 PM

1 年 {:7:}

picniclau 發表於 2011-1-4 05:46 PM

[quote]唉, 雖然宜家我地都好SWEET SWEET,,,
但諗到再遲少少...
講衰少少... *Touch wood* 佢走先過我既話, 果10 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 10:19 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46241&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]

咁你哋雙方家長知唔知?

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 05:55 PM

[quote]咁你哋雙方家長知唔知?
[size=2][color=#999999]picniclau 發表於 2011-1-4 05:46 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46728&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    嗯[font=Times New Roman][size=3][color=#000000]! 知道架,,, 佢既Daddy 媽咪亦都好鐘意我,,,[/color][/size][/font]
[font=Times New Roman][size=3][color=#000000]而我媽咪佢都話, 只要我真係開心就OK啦,,,
[/color][/size][/font]

pinky226 發表於 2011-1-4 06:03 PM

[quote]嗯! 知道架,,, 佢既Daddy 媽咪亦都好鐘意我,,,
而我媽咪佢都話, 只要我真係開心就OK啦,,,
[size=2][color=#999999]CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 05:55 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46731&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


咁咪ok囉...最緊要一齊開心..雙方家長又吾反對...咁長遠既野吾好諗la....

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 06:41 PM

[quote]咁咪ok囉...最緊要一齊開心..雙方家長又吾反對...咁長遠既野吾好諗la....
[size=2][color=#999999]pinky226 發表於 2011-1-4 06:03 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46741&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    多謝你呀,, 不過都好彩佢個樣唔係咁老... XD 老豆拖女咁樣就唔好啦... >.<

pinky226 發表於 2011-1-4 06:47 PM

[quote]多謝你呀,, 不過都好彩佢個樣唔係咁老... XD 老豆拖女咁樣就唔好啦... >.
[size=2][color=#999999]CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 06:41 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46769&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


依家都好多呢d..姊弟..父女...母子....乜野都有....
最緊要另一半對自己好姐...吾駛理人地咁多.....
祝你幸福快樂

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 10:10 PM

[quote]依家都好多呢d..姊弟..父女...母子....乜野都有....
最緊要另一半對自己好姐...吾駛理人地咁多.... ...
[size=2][color=#999999]pinky226 發表於 2011-1-4 06:47 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46771&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    哈哈, 咁都係既~ 多謝你~ :)

TingTingTsang 發表於 2011-1-4 11:25 PM

e~真係差幾多wo~不過唔係問題ge^^
我差6年~

TingTingTsang 發表於 2011-1-4 11:26 PM

[quote]唉, 雖然宜家我地都好SWEET SWEET,,,
但諗到再遲少少...
講衰少少... *Touch wood* 佢走先過我既話, 果10 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 10:19 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46241&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    有d年紀愈大愈有男人味~又照顧到人~

ym917 發表於 2011-1-5 06:08 AM

其實我都想試下同d大自己8-10年.....
年齡唔係問題..重點係相愛又相處到~

picniclau 發表於 2011-1-5 12:23 PM

[quote]嗯! 知道架,,, 佢既Daddy 媽咪亦都好鐘意我,,,
而我媽咪佢都話, 只要我真係開心就OK啦,,,
[size=2][color=#999999]CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-4 05:55 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46731&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]

咁就好啦, 祝福你~

janiceliupig 發表於 2011-1-5 01:40 PM

[quote]其實我都想試下同d大自己8-10年.....
年齡唔係問題..重點係相愛又相處到~
[size=2][color=#999999]ym917 發表於 2011-1-5 06:08 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=47359&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


   最緊要都系鍾意姐...如果唔系點都冇用

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-5 06:57 PM

[quote]咁就好啦, 祝福你~
[size=2][color=#999999]picniclau 發表於 2011-1-5 12:23 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=47608&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    多謝你既祝福 :D!

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-5 07:00 PM

[quote]其實我都想試下同d大自己8-10年.....
年齡唔係問題..重點係相愛又相處到~
[size=2][color=#999999]ym917 發表於 2011-1-5 06:08 AM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=47359&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    其實都係既... 佢地係會比較成熟,亦會比較識照顧人...
但有時真係會有唔少代溝架... :) 不過~ 真係相愛, 真係相處到既話,
其實根本就唔係D咩問題~ :)

KAWA0924 發表於 2011-1-5 07:01 PM

大我5年~@@

wingwing_jesica 發表於 2011-1-8 05:07 PM

[b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=46014&ptid=2357]1#[/url] [i]CeCeYan[/i] [/b]


    我同我個bf都差14年!!
    我都怕"touch wood"  佢死先過我..  
    不過..  同樣我都唔想我死先過佢!!
    留係到果好可憐~
    好想搵人傾下!!  不過好多人都唔明白點解我會中2大我敢多既人..

heracheung 發表於 2011-1-8 05:22 PM

My boyfriend is 2 years older. I had a serious boyfriend who is 15 years older than me. You are right, there are generation gap. But the most important thing is that we have different values and social standards which was the reason why we broke up. He had different expectations of me because "back in his time, girls are like that" so...it is something that is quite hard to resolve.

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-8 05:49 PM

[quote]回復  CeCeYan


    我同我個bf都差14年!!
    我都怕"touch wood"  佢死先過我..  
    不過..   ...
[size=2][color=#999999]wingwing_jesica 發表於 2011-1-8 05:07 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=51954&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    巴哈哈, 我地應該幾岩傾... 我BF都大過我... 差唔多20年.
你想搵人傾下可以搵我架,, 應該會明白大家既想法. :)
其實都係既.... 如果*touch wood* 佢真係走先既話... 真係唔知點算架...
如果我地大家都有70歲命... 佢走果時我先50歲... 咁即係點呀=___= 果20年點算...
巴哈哈, 唔通搵過果咩... =[

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-8 06:04 PM

[quote]My boyfriend is 2 years older. I had a serious boyfriend who is 15 years older than me. You are righ ...
[size=2][color=#999999]heracheung 發表於 2011-1-8 05:22 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=51968&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


May I ask how long did you guys last for? (If you don't mind). My boyfriend is almost 20 years older than me. However, so far we do have generation gaps... And we sometimes argue because of it. But we not yet have the problems you mentioned above.....And I admit that our point of view on different things are different... Hmph,,, After your message here, I'm a bit scared... We're doing very well right now (Maybe it's just that we haven't been together for too long) But so far,,, I think we can make it.... At least I hope.
Thanks for your comment! I'm looking forward to hear from you more about your experience! :)

AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-8 06:53 PM

可能我講我個CASE出黎會嚇親大家...
我女友大過我15年

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-8 07:14 PM

[quote]可能我講我個CASE出黎會嚇親大家...
我女友大過我15年
[size=2][color=#999999]AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-8 06:53 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=52027&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    啊?! 咁你介唔介意講下你地點識架~同埋你地相處有冇咩心得講下啊~?^^

KAWA0924 發表於 2011-1-8 07:19 PM

[quote]可能我講我個CASE出黎會嚇親大家...
我女友大過我15年
[size=2][color=#999999]AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-8 06:53 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=52027&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]

你幾大先~@@?

wingwing_jesica 發表於 2011-1-8 09:52 PM

[i=s] 本帖最後由 wingwing_jesica 於 2011-1-8 10:04 PM 編輯 [/i]

[b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=51981&ptid=2357]26#[/url] [i]CeCeYan[/i] [/b]


   HaHAA..  我都覺我地應該幾好傾!!
 不過.. 我諗你比我幸福d!!
 我地仲因為一d野煩緊~
   不過 你有咩都可以搵我傾呀~
   只少 我應該會明白你既想法~

AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-9 03:19 PM

[b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=52062&ptid=2357]30#[/url] [i]KAWA0924[/i] [/b]


    我黎緊27

AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-9 03:21 PM

[b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=52054&ptid=2357]29#[/url] [i]CeCeYan[/i] [/b]


    係同一間公司做野識架囉
其實相處唔係一個大問題,
反而係最初我女友有D避忌,
好似好怕比人知,
咁我咪成日都拖住佢手,
比佢知我唔怕,慢慢比信心佢囉

KAWA0924 發表於 2011-1-9 03:40 PM

[quote]回復  CeCeYan


    係同一間公司做野識架囉
其實相處唔係一個大問題,
反而係最初我女友有D避忌,
好 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-9 03:21 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=53093&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


   你GF個樣唔係大你勁多其實冇咩野吧~

AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-9 05:27 PM

[b]回復 [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=53103&ptid=2357]34#[/url] [i]KAWA0924[/i] [/b]


    其實一睇都睇得出架,不過我唔MIND既

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-10 11:48 PM

[quote]回復  CeCeYan


   HaHAA..  我都覺我地應該幾好傾!!
 不過.. 我諗你比我幸福d!!
 我地仲 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]wingwing_jesica 發表於 2011-1-8 09:52 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=52374&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    點解你又會覺得我會幸福~? 哈哈~為咩事煩啊~ 我地睇下可唔可以幫你分擔下?~

CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-10 11:51 PM

[quote]回復  CeCeYan


    係同一間公司做野識架囉
其實相處唔係一個大問題,
反而係最初我女友有D避忌,
好 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-9 03:21 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=53093&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


   其實到左呢個時候~我相信你女朋友對你都已經有足夠既信心了吧?~我祝福你地要幸幸福福呀~!
呢段關係, 有可能會有人唔認同 (至少我宜家都有D人唔認同....)
但開心既事同回憶, 仲有最緊要既感覺同愛只有你地2個知道/感受到,
所以你地有咩事都好, 都要支持住, 永遠都要幸幸福福呀 =)

jessieyip 發表於 2011-1-11 12:51 AM

WOW
15年.

年齡都吾系一個大問題既:)

JuanWat 發表於 2011-1-13 08:51 AM

[quote]回復  KAWA0924


    其實一睇都睇得出架,不過我唔MIND既
[size=2][color=#999999]AndrewKu 發表於 2011-1-9 05:27 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=53144&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


    我都識得一啲男性朋友鍾意年紀大過佢哋嘅女人, 成熟啲, 有女人味, 又唔使就佢哋啲小姐脾氣; 唔知你係咪咁睇?

JuanWat 發表於 2011-1-13 09:49 AM

[quote]巴哈哈, 我地應該幾岩傾... 我BF都大過我... 差唔多20年.
你想搵人傾下可以搵我架,, 應該會明白 ...
[size=2][color=#999999]CeCeYan 發表於 2011-1-8 05:49 PM[/color] [url=http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=51981&ptid=2357][img]http://lady.qooza.hk/forum/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url][/size][/quote]


其實伴侶邊個大邊個細都冇所謂, 最緊要係思想同性格配合同溝通到; 無論男女, 有啲人係比較成熟, 喜歡比自己大的異性做伴侶, 亦有人鍾意細過自己嘅; 我老公細我3年, 我哋就嚟27週年喇, 但冇人估到我哋係老夫老妻! 至於邊個死先冇得驚架喎! 我表妹細佢老公10年, 但因病09年已bye bye咗喇!
總之, 自己兩個人相處唔使理人點睇, 無論你好與唔好都會有人講。

頁: [1] 2

Powered by Discuz! Archiver 7.2  © 2001-2009 Comsenz Inc.